Test Your Relationship.
By C D Mohatta.
All of our relationships are multi faceted. Whether it is marital
relationship or a love relationship, all have dimensions that
make them go through ups and downs in our life. A relationship
essentially develops between two persons and that is the reason
of these changes. If one person is feeling bad for some reason,
the relationship will suffer. There are three factors in a
relationship - You, the person you are relating with and the type
of relationship. Is there any method to test the relationships?
Will that help? Let us find out.
There are few websites that offer tests and quizzes. Attempt all
the quizzes on relationships and find out your answers. Ask your
mate to do the same and find the answers. Compare your answers
and try to find questions that were answered differently by both
of you. That will tell you something about the areas your
relationship may encounter friction.
The tests will serve another purpose. That is to raise questions
in your mind. For example if a test question wants to know if you
are satisfied with your mateĀ?s attention to you and you answer
yes, but still think if the answer is correct? The questions
asked in a test will give you a lot to think about. Discuss the
tests with your mate and find out how your views are same and
different. This will give you both a long list of questions to
talk about with each other.
This exercise must be carried out in an atmosphere of good will
and care for each other. Such an exercise can help you find a lot
about your relationship and how your mate looks at you. Normally
we don't tell each other that we don't like a certain habit of
our mate. But when we answer that question in a quiz, our
opinions will become clear to our mate and without any rancor, we
manage to send the message. Quizzes and tests give us an
opportunity at no cost to strengthen our relationship. Here are
few Relationsh
ip Quizzes for you to try. Recommended - Are you getting joy in your
relationship?, Is your partner emotionally
satisfied? and Are you feeling victimized in
marriage?