Friday, September 22, 2006

5 Top Reasons Why Women Love Too Much, And How To Know You Have Met One?


Have you ever felt you were in love? That you would do just anything for that person, no matter how right or wrong you thought something was. Most all of us have felt this way at one point or another in our lives, even if the person we ‘loved’ knew nothing about our feelings. Men fall hard for a woman, in the early years, as we learn all about love, women, and what we think is going to attract a woman.

Loving too much can be a smothering feeling, that often times is going to push someone away as the feelings and outward emotions are just too much to handle. So, think about the women who have come and gone in life, have you ever met someone who loved you too much? Perhaps smothered you with their love, and you felt that you just couldn’t take any more and had to get a little more space? To teach you a little more about women, and why a woman wants to feel loved so badly, you are given the five reasons why women love too much.

A woman has a need to comfort others, even if she doesn’t realize this, most women have this need, a desire to take care of another person – which doesn’t have to be a child, but a man. A woman who loves too much is going to feel the need to give you as much of their selves to you as possible, as much as you will allow.

A woman wants to be the center of attention, and in being the center of attention, her love is going to demand all of your love. The woman who loves too much wants that in return. A lonely feeling that needs fulfilling is what drives her to seek all the love that you have to offer without limitations or boundaries.

Many women are still products of their environment, brought up to be at a man’s beck and call, devoting every last energy to the man of their dreams. While you may feel this is a good thing, that a woman wants to take care of you, and love you like no other, provide for your every whim and need like no other woman can do, can often be over demanding in the attention she is going to expect in return.

Women who have a low self esteem, a low confidence level will feel the need to love more than needed, more than possible, to be the center of your attention, meeting your every whim and need. Women who have a low self esteem are protecting you from needing anything else in life, because they are afraid of losing you, so they will offer you too much love, smothering you with their feelings as the relationship continues.

In feeling pity for the man who has been through a tough life, a woman will feel the need to love a man too much, to take away all the problems and pain in life. This all goes back to a need to comfort, to control, and to be in charge, and this type of woman is going to love you with all her heart, but she can make your life a living hell if you don’t realize that everything she does is for your best interests.

You will find that you constantly have to give her respect, or her overwhelming love is going to drive you crazy as you lose more and more of your freedoms as she ‘smoothers’ you with too much love.

How will you know if you are with a woman that loves you too much?
Ø Does your woman try to do things for you that you can easily do yourself?
Ø Does your woman want to do more for you than she does for herself?
Ø Do you feel as if you are being treated like a child sometimes?
Ø Have you been embarrassed by the smothering feelings in public?
Ø Are you unsure of the next step in the relationship because you constantly feel as if you are being pushed into something more?

The difference between a man and a woman is that a man is confident in what he wants, and will work towards getting what he wants. As a man is accustomed to having what he wants he is most often going to give his partner a little more room in the relationship. Men are not very open when it comes to expressing ones feelings, or showing too much love. If a man were to love someone too much, and be too clingy, they are often times considered possessive and jealous.

A relationship can survive even if the woman loves a man too much. As a man, you may enjoy all the attention and overly motherly feelings of a woman who loves you too much. A relationship is going to survive as you, the man, continue to put your feelings, and thoughts out there for the woman to be known. Men can thrive on the love of a woman, by putting a woman in her ‘place’ at times, by telling her, when to back off, how decisions should be made and so on.

The man who allows the woman to make all the decisions and to take care of everything is only looking for divorce at some point down the road. Teach her to share the responsibilities, and teach her you are your own man, and show her that you can be independent and a couple at the same time. This is not something that is going to happen overnight, but in the course of the relationship.

What are the things a man mustn’t say to a woman who love too much? A woman who loves you too much is going to expect that you love her as well. If you were to tell a woman, who has loved you in a manner that is overbearing for a long time, that she is overbearing and to back off, she is going to be hurt – she is going to lose trust in the relationship fast and will become spiteful. You have to learn to handle her with tactful words, and to say something like, I love how you take care of…. However, I think I can handle this one myself.

On the other hand, it could be, You have been trying so hard to take care of everything for so long, I think it is time I take care of…………. These tactful words are going to flatter her, but also show what you think, and what you are going to do about a situation right now.

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7 Simple Things You Could Do To Stop Your Woman Acting In Ways That Could Drive You Crazy


There are some relationships that are being stressed by how the woman is acting. For some men, they are not able to handle the nagging and the unpredictable behavior that goes on from time to time or in fact all the time. It is hard for the man to understand what they can do to stop it or help the situation improve. Separation is not always the answer.

Look for it
If you are doing something that you know is going to make her mad, you better be anticipating getting in trouble. Some examples are coming home late with no phone call, forgetting to do something earlier in the day for her; these are things that you know will get you into some kind of trouble. Be prepared. Bring some flowers home or a box of candy. This will help calm the behavior so that you do not have to listen to it.

Listen to her
Usually a woman will make it clear what she is mad about. This is not a secret. A man will need to pay attention and listen to what she is saying. You need to listen closely to what she is saying and sometimes you have to read between the lines. This will make her happy to see that you are paying attention and she may not drive you crazy as long.

Dealing with her
For some men, they have to completely tone the woman out. They are there but they have learned ways to zone her out when she is driving him crazy. Smiling and nodding is a good way to make it look like you are paying attention and that you understood what you are getting reamed out about.

Using the you is right technique
This one will give you the element of happiness and surprise for the woman. As soon as she starts driving you crazy, you can jump right in there with an “I know what I did was wrong”. Or “ I am sorry Honey”. These will usually sweeten her up and you will not be in for the total package of yelling and irrational behavior that woman can sometimes get into. Woman love to hear their man tell them that they are right. This is the level of satisfaction that a lot of women live for.

Try to avoid it when possible
If you know that your woman is mad and you are not sure why, you may want to try and find out why she is so angry with you first. You may want to avoid her until you are in complete understanding of what you did wrong so that you can defend yourself when it comes time. Avoid her as much as possible until you have things figured out. You know like a backup plan, an excuse or a reason why you did what you did. This will help to avoid the entire blow up situation and give you time to regroup. You may want to try and not do anything that would bring out the woman’s crazy side, but this is sometimes impossible.

Talk it out
If you are your woman are not getting along and her behavior is driving you crazy, you may want to try and talk it out. This is sometimes a great idea to get things out in the open and to make the situation better. Tell her that what you are upset about with the crazy nagging and so forth. This may be the chance you need to make her see how bad she makes you feel when the behavior starts.

Break up
For some relationships there is no fixing it. The behavior of the female is just too much for a man to handle. There is no point in making the entire situation worse by putting up with behavior that makes both of you unhappy. If the crazy situation is making both people unhappy, they may want to consider breaking up. This is a last resort, but one that may not be inevitable. It is better to break it off and be happy, then to stay together unhappy. You can break it off and remain friends and maybe try again later down the road.

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