Monday, November 13, 2006

I look for someone who has aspirations and looks to the future and knows what he wants

1. Marital Status

Single

2. If you can you would like to let your partner know ...

My boyfriend needs to appreciate me. I need to feel like i am a priority in his life and to be reminded & reassured that he loves me/wants me/etc. My bf used to think I owuld just know that he feels that way because he's told me, but I want to hear it again ...& again! I need someone who is honest and pushes me to do things that I wouldnt normally do, that pushes me to open up to him.

3. What do you want and need in romance and dating?

To get flowers, to feel important enough to do romantic things for such as nice dinner, flowers, or something that comes from the heart even if it's simple

4. What do you want and need in Sex?

Someone who can take control, help me to take control, & tell me what he wants, not be selfish and be very open but not pushy. My boyfriend and I are long distance at the moment so he has to be creative and not be afraid to initiate phone sex etc. A guy who thinks I am sexy and tells me during sex, I hate sex that is so quiet you don't even know if the guy got off! the best sex I had the guy was very verbal telling me I'm beautiful, telling me what he wants to do, telling me how good it feels etc.

5. What do you look for in a mate?

Cute, has a good heart--someone who is kind to his family likes kids/animals, someone who is sincere. I look for someone who has aspirations and looks to the future and knows what he wants. I like a strong man but who can also show his emotions with me. I like a guy who is outdoorsy

6. What turns you on?

When a guy gives complements that are specific, kissing the back of my neck, playing w/my hair, a guy who smells fantastic is a big turn on. A guy who makes me laugh, nice arm muscles but not like steroid but just strong enough to pick me up, which is also a turn on.

7. What turns you off?

A whiny guy, a guy who is a baby. I am not here to take care of you. I am more traditional in the sense of a guy should be the one to make the move etc. Mama's boys, guys who talk derogatively about women or are racist. guys who smoke or chew. guys who are very into themselves and "pretty boys" i hate when a guy is preoccupied with his looks. Huge muscles are a turn off

8. What do you (secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to him/her?

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The Question of Lying in Your Relationship

While you know that your mother always told you that it was a bad thing to lie, it seems that more and more people are doing it. From your friends to your local political leaders, it seems that everyone is trying to stretch the truth in order to make them either look better or to protect someone from harm. But does lying really achieve that? Can you better your relationship through lying?

What a lie is

One of the reasons that lying is so ambiguous in its application is because we tend to make its meaning vague. In the simplest manner, lying is not telling the truth. However, does that mean that you can’t stretch the truth a little? Does that mean that you can’t lie a little? Is it really all or nothing? Some people believe that lying is avoiding telling the truth as opposed to actually not telling it. Hence lying by omission has become a hot topic of discussion. If a person doesn’t tell someone something, are they lying or are they just avoiding telling the truth?

Creating your definition

The truth about lying is that everyone has their own way of looking at it. When you’re in a serious relationship, it will help to figure out what you and your partner feel about lying and how you should see it in your everyday conversations. Will you have a no tolerance approach to lying or will you be okay with little lies? Talk to your partner about any lies that you have told them and see what their reaction is. You need to see just where they start to feel comfortable with dishonesty.

The question of honesty

What you may find in your discussion about lying is that one lie can actually lead to another lie and another and another. In these cases, it can seem like there are more lies than truths. And in that case, a relationship that uses little lies over and over again might not be as truthful as it seems. When you’re caught in one lie, you can start to seem as though you can not be trusted to tell the truth. In a relationship, this can be the beginning of the end.

The trust that you have

In your romantic and personal relationships, you need to have a sense of trust in each other. You want to trust that the other person will be there for you and that they will tell you the truth. This is where the argument for lying becomes straightforward – lying begets distrust. A relationship that allows even a little lying can start to crumble once it is revealed. While it might not seem like a big deal, the idea that one would lie about something little can make a partner wonder if they would not feel bad about lying about something bigger.

It’s a snowball effect of questioning and unease that develop in a relationship. Are there going to be times that you lie? Of course, but the idea is that the general rule should be that the practice should be avoided at all costs.

Building your honesty

While it may be uncomfortable, the easiest thing to do when you want to build trust in your relationship is to start by unraveling any lies that you might currently be caught up in. This means that you will start by telling your partner what you may have been holding back and then working on being more truthful in the future.

You will want to try to stop yourself whenever you realize that you’re about to say something that’s not truthful. Try to find other ways to respond to certain situations in order to not lie. For example, if you are asked your opinion, you can always say that you’re rather not say than lie about what you think.

Never lie again?

Be truthful – you will lie again. We’re human and it’s just something that you can become mindless about. But what you can do is learn how to be more truthful in your everyday interactions with others. Try to understand what motivates you to lie – are you trying to impress someone? Trying to hide something?

When you start to understand the ‘why’ behind your lying, you will find that addressing this ‘why’ will be the end of your lying ways. Honestly.

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