Saturday, March 22, 2008

What Married Women Want - in her love relationships!

The title may sound like all a married woman wants is sex, but that isn’t true! Sex is definitely a part of any thriving relationship, but a married woman needs more than just sex.

Some men simply are at odds when things go wrong. They don’t want their woman to be upset or to leave, but they’re truly not sure what to do to make her happy.

What do women truly want in a relationship? Let’s delve a bit deeper into the complex mysteries that are a woman’s heart and mind.

1) Commitment

If you married your wife with the traditional vows, a few words might have popped up. Words like, “obey”, “till death”, “bind”.

Do these sound solid and unbreakable? They should.

A marriage is not meant to be taken lightly, and most women take them very seriously. A woman is not in jitters right before her nuptials approach just because she wants to look good in the gown, she’s scared about the future as well.

Let’s face it: men do not have a good reputation in this day and age. In a world full of “baby daddy’s”, it’s easy to understand why a woman would have a hard time trusting and relying on a man.

Ladies want commitment. They want to know that their man will not be going anywhere no matter how rough the situation gets.

Some women will even cause situations to occur in order to discover if their man wants to say or not. My friend had this situation occur when he married his wife, Barbara.

Jordan married Barbara after they had only been together for a little over eighteen months. Shortly after the honeymoon ended, Barbara began fighting with Jordan all the time.

She would find any little reason to yell at him and would storm off in anger to go back to her mother’s house. Jordan didn’t know what was going on. He wasn’t doing anything wrong that he knew of, and yet Barbara was constantly threatening to leave him.

He stood fast to the marriage and told her that he wasn’t going anywhere. He said that she would have to be the one to get the divorce papers if she wanted the marriage ended, but that he wouldn’t sign them.

Suddenly she calmed down and, as he told it, she cried on his shoulder for an hour. She exclaimed that she was just so sure that things would end because they were married that she was trying to get things over with on her terms.

The two have now been married for five years.

2) Tender Moments

We’re all so busy now a days that we hardly have a chance to breathe. If you’re a single man or woman it’s not that big of a deal, but when you get married it’s more important than ever to find some time to be together and alone.

And, if you have kids you’ll quickly find that time alone becomes your own sacred holy grail.

Don’t let the world control your relationship. Instead, make sure you carve out time for the two of you. If you can manage it, surprise her when she arrives home one day with a hot bath and a glass of wine.

Or take her on a long, quiet drive where you stop and watch the sun go down together. If you work on opposite shifts, leave her little love notes here and there to remind her how much you love her.

3) Housework

No one, and I repeat no one enjoys doing housework. There are those odd people who like to wash windows or clean out the fridge, but, as a whole, no one likes housework.

Make sure, gentlemen, that you are doing your fair share. My friend’s husband Teck Khong is horrible about housework. Katie is a stay at home mom and cleans the house constantly, but whenever Teck is home he just drops his stuff wherever he is and leaves it for her to pick up.

She has exclaimed that one day of him being home makes it look as though she hasn’t cleaned her house in weeks.

Here’s a simple rule: if you drop it, pick it up. If you ate it, clean it up. And if you marked tracks all over your wife’s clean kitchen floor, mop it up before she sees them! You don’t have to be a neat freak, but make sure that you take care of yourself, and, if you have time, do a little extra housework as well.

Women aren’t as hard to please as many men seem to think. They simply want to be respected, committed to, and treated as equals.

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