Tuesday, December 09, 2008

Why are men scared of commitment


Usually men do not always put a timeframe to their relationship, and most women are very, very aware of time... they want to get married fast, get their men to nod their head fast, and so on.

But be aware that not all men are going to bow down to the time pressures being put on them. I always feel that if you are having a great time with the love of your life, treasure it! Treasure EACH AND EVERY moment that both of you are being together! Because, life is so unpredictable. You never know if you will see each other again the next day. Live the moment!

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

Faithful, Loyalty, Honesty, Openess, Kindness, Passion, Love, support, security, to know no matter what he will love and cherish me for me

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your partner?

Thoughtful romantic gestures. Small tokens, picnics in the park, cosy nights in, wined and dined every now and then. Most importantly to be held and to feel wanted and desired, to be told i love you.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

Variation, passion, caressing, holding and lots of touch and closeness. There has to be an emotional connection as well as the physical act. Whispering i love you, intimate.

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

sense of humour, strong beliefs and morals, honesty, kindness, motivation, loving and open, family orientated, love of nature, exciting

5) What turns you on?

caressing, kissing, being told i love you, feeling desired and wanted

6) What turns you off?

No emotional connection

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your partner?

How much i love him I don't think i can convey how much i do

8) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

There seems to be a lot of doubt and worry about the success of our relationship. Communication is at times difficult it seems i say one thing but he hears something completely different. I fear i used to be quite emotionally led and he felt a loss of control and therefore resentment... He feels nervous and scared when we're not together thinking we'll never work as we couldn't make it work before yet when we're together he says it feels perfect and he has no doubts but he doesn't seem to find time to spend more than 2 nights a week to be with me. He has his studies, friends and family and says he doesn't feel comfortable around my housemates and won't impose himself for more than 2 nights a week....

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