Honesty and Loyalty are KEYS to a long lasting relationship

Here's one feedback from a woman who is single. You can see that most women are still looking for pure, genuine love from their man. And "honesty" and "loyalty" are important to most women looking for unconditional love.

Communication between couples are important. Because some times a man can still be a loyal and honest person, yet the way he chooses to 'display' these in his daily life this is 'not up to the standards' and expectations of his woman, resulting in more misunderstanding and conflicts. So women too have to learn to really understand their men.

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

I need love, respect, loyal, being admired, honesty, happy

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your Man (or husband).

i want my man to love me and show me loyalty, happiness, friendship and always have my back

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

to have a orgasm

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

i look for a soulmate that love me no matter what

5) What turns you on?

A men that spend time with me, and a man that spend money on me and show me a good time

6) What turns you off?

i hate a man that lies cheat, steal, and that's not faithful, and that plays games with woman

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to him?

how much i love him

8) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

him playing games with me

9) What is your TOP Problem in your relationship with your man

i want him to be honesty at all times with me

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Save Your Relationship: Lose your flirtatious ways and show your honey the loving he or she needs..

When you see a cutie from across the club and give ‘em “the eyes” (you know which ones I mean) your significant other is probably not going to be happy.

I should know; I’ve seen more bar fights start that way.

Jealousy is a terrible characteristic in any relationship, but sometimes it’s not always your partner’s fault.

If you’re being a total flirt wherever you go, it might be up to you to fix the relationship. Lose your flirtatious ways and show your honey the loving he or she needs.

1) How to Know you’ve Crossed the Line

I’m not going to lie—when my boyfriend is a little jealous of the attention I’m getting from other guys, it makes me feel appreciated.

A bit of the green monster keeps any relationship healthy and happy.

However, most people don’t know where to draw the line between innocent flirting and going to far.

Respect your significant other; if he or she shows the following signs, you may be flirting too much:

- Not wanting to go out in public anymore
- Fixing your outfit to make it less revealing
- Ignoring you when you flirt with other guys or girls
- Touching you more than normal when you’re in public
- Calling you often if you’re out without him or her

2) Building Trust

If you suspect your sweetie might be hurt by your flirting, stop immediately. Build trust instead!

Without a sense of honesty in a relationship, you are destined to be unhappy and break up in the end.

Remember that you are part of a couple, so you should modify your behavior in public slightly so that you are not trying to attract other men or women.

How can you put your significant other’s fears to rest? Simply put, show him or her that you care. If your partner trusts you 100%, a twinge of jealousy will how you grow together instead of pushing you apart.

However, if the trust is not there, jealousy will make your girlfriend or boyfriend suspicious that you are cheating.

When you go out in public, wear clothing that makes you look and feel good, but that is not as seductive as you’d wear if you’re single.

Remember, your goal no longer is to collect phone numbers! If you are unsure that your clothing is appropriate, ask your significant other for advice.

Boys, your girlfriend can probably choose an outfit for you, and girls, even if your man isn’t into fashion, he or she can help you choose between two different skirts.

If you’re going out alone, call your honey before he or she calls you. This is especially important if your plans changes and you’re going to a different location or coming home at a different time.

It also helps a jealous partner if you wear a watch, necklace, ring, shirt, or other item of clothing that they bought for you. Tell them it’s a reminder of them while you’re apart.

When you go out as a couple, flirting with other guys or girls is ok to some extent. Before you cross the line, however, make sure that it is well known that you are taken.

Pull your girl out on the floor to dance or kiss your guy for all to see. Make it known that you’re claimed. This can save your relationship from disaster—your boyfriend or girlfriend will realize that you are happy with the relationship, and that you’re not shopping for a new boy or girl.

3) Beyond Saving?

If jealousy is a major stumbling block in your relationship, you’ll need to do more than ask your partner for clothing advice to save the relationship.

Take a close look at your actions. Are you causing the problem or is it due to your partner’s envious personality? Be honest with yourself, and get the help you both need to make the relationship work.

First and foremost, have a truthful conversation with one another about the jealousy issues in your relationship. If your significant other denies being jealous even if his or her actions say otherwise, there could be underlying problems with control.

To save your relationship, you may want to look into couples therapy or otherwise asking for help with your relationship.

With a little hard work, you can keep innocent flirting from turning into something much more serious. Keep your significant other as the most important person in your life and you can stop jealousy from taking over your relationship.

- Cucan Pemo
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What Married Women Want - in her love relationships!

The title may sound like all a married woman wants is sex, but that isn’t true! Sex is definitely a part of any thriving relationship, but a married woman needs more than just sex.

Some men simply are at odds when things go wrong. They don’t want their woman to be upset or to leave, but they’re truly not sure what to do to make her happy.

What do women truly want in a relationship? Let’s delve a bit deeper into the complex mysteries that are a woman’s heart and mind.

1) Commitment

If you married your wife with the traditional vows, a few words might have popped up. Words like, “obey”, “till death”, “bind”.

Do these sound solid and unbreakable? They should.

A marriage is not meant to be taken lightly, and most women take them very seriously. A woman is not in jitters right before her nuptials approach just because she wants to look good in the gown, she’s scared about the future as well.

Let’s face it: men do not have a good reputation in this day and age. In a world full of “baby daddy’s”, it’s easy to understand why a woman would have a hard time trusting and relying on a man.

Ladies want commitment. They want to know that their man will not be going anywhere no matter how rough the situation gets.

Some women will even cause situations to occur in order to discover if their man wants to say or not. My friend had this situation occur when he married his wife, Barbara.

Jordan married Barbara after they had only been together for a little over eighteen months. Shortly after the honeymoon ended, Barbara began fighting with Jordan all the time.

She would find any little reason to yell at him and would storm off in anger to go back to her mother’s house. Jordan didn’t know what was going on. He wasn’t doing anything wrong that he knew of, and yet Barbara was constantly threatening to leave him.

He stood fast to the marriage and told her that he wasn’t going anywhere. He said that she would have to be the one to get the divorce papers if she wanted the marriage ended, but that he wouldn’t sign them.

Suddenly she calmed down and, as he told it, she cried on his shoulder for an hour. She exclaimed that she was just so sure that things would end because they were married that she was trying to get things over with on her terms.

The two have now been married for five years.

2) Tender Moments

We’re all so busy now a days that we hardly have a chance to breathe. If you’re a single man or woman it’s not that big of a deal, but when you get married it’s more important than ever to find some time to be together and alone.

And, if you have kids you’ll quickly find that time alone becomes your own sacred holy grail.

Don’t let the world control your relationship. Instead, make sure you carve out time for the two of you. If you can manage it, surprise her when she arrives home one day with a hot bath and a glass of wine.

Or take her on a long, quiet drive where you stop and watch the sun go down together. If you work on opposite shifts, leave her little love notes here and there to remind her how much you love her.

3) Housework

No one, and I repeat no one enjoys doing housework. There are those odd people who like to wash windows or clean out the fridge, but, as a whole, no one likes housework.

Make sure, gentlemen, that you are doing your fair share. My friend’s husband Teck Khong is horrible about housework. Katie is a stay at home mom and cleans the house constantly, but whenever Teck is home he just drops his stuff wherever he is and leaves it for her to pick up.

She has exclaimed that one day of him being home makes it look as though she hasn’t cleaned her house in weeks.

Here’s a simple rule: if you drop it, pick it up. If you ate it, clean it up. And if you marked tracks all over your wife’s clean kitchen floor, mop it up before she sees them! You don’t have to be a neat freak, but make sure that you take care of yourself, and, if you have time, do a little extra housework as well.

Women aren’t as hard to please as many men seem to think. They simply want to be respected, committed to, and treated as equals.

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Most girls want to FEEL loved and WANTED!!!

Find out what a married woman wants and need in her marriage and relationship!!!

It does seem that most girls and women does not really mind you knowing how to make love or not, or whether you can make love professionally or not, most women want to FEEL they are being loved AND wanted!!!

And of course, this can be a bit diffcult depending on who you are and how you express your love! It can be quite difficult too because whether a girl can FEEL the love or not is dependent on the "conclusions" the woman/girl make.

...and we cannot control or "force" women to want to feel that way!

If you have been wondering what your girl or woman wants and needs in her life and love relationship, the answers provided here can help you gain some insights into your inner world and soul!

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Qn: What do you want and need in your Relationship?

i know he loves me and is very much sincere to me but he doesnt express his love like he used to do before neither through words nor anything else.

Qn: What do you want and need in Romance and Dating?What exactly do you want from your man or husband?

want him to make me feel loved all time at home and in front of others.

Qn: What do you want and need in sex?

want his love everyday. it doesn't mean sex everyday.

Qn: What do you look for in a mate or soulmate?

one who only loves me and is sincere.

Qn: What turns you on?

when he does has time for me.

Qn: What turns you off?

when he doesnt take care of my feelings, does not show that he loves me. does not take out time for himself and me only.

Qn: What do you (secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a change to convey that to him?

i want his attention and love all the time like he used to give me before.

Qn: What do you find most challenging or difficult about your love, relationship or marriage?

i am hesitant to ask for his love but we are good friends at the same time. may be i want HIM to love me without my say and express his love all the time. i want to be felt loved all time whether it be through words or gifts or any other kinds of surprises. i want the life romantic again.

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How To Know If Your Girlfriend Is Cheating??

Men tend to be jealous creatures. Women can absolutely be jealous of their boyfriends, but men tend to be the ones that get into a rage about any possible trespassing that has occurred on their woman.

In reality, men are made to be more jealous on purpose. When it comes to evolution, if a woman cheats, she can possibly conceive a child.

A man’s first instincts are to make sure that anything that comes out of his woman’s womb is his child. It is an urge that has been bred into men, and one that is hard to overcome.

So how do you know if your girlfriend is cheating on you with another man? Here are some simple signs that will help you to discover if your girlfriend is cheating on you or not.

#1: The Blame Game

What do you do if your girlfriend approaches you suddenly and says that she’s sure that you are cheating on her, even though you’ve never strayed.

The first thing you may want to do is console and reassure her. Don’t. There is a very good chance that the reason your girlfriend is accusing you of cheating is because she is cheating herself.

By turning the situation around on you and by trying to get you to focus on the accusation, she is trying to make sure that you don’t look too closely at her activities.

There is always the possibility, however, that she truly does think you are cheating, but if her reasons don’t have merit, you need to consider the fact that she may be accusing you in order to take the heat off of herself.

#2: Buying New Things

If your girlfriend suddenly starts buying a lot of sexy underwear, look out. There are one of three reasons that this could be occurring.

a. Because she wants to make herself sexy for you.
b. Because she wants to make herself feel more sexy for herself.

c. Because she wants to make herself sexy for someone else.

How can you tell which option your girlfriend is choosing? Well, if she wears the sexy underwear around you and teases you with it, you can be pretty sure she bought it for you.

If she buys sexy underwear, along with other new clothes, bras, and even night clothes, there is a good chance she is purchasing it in order to make herself feel good.

If, however, she’s wearing the underwear whenever she goes out and is not using them around you, chances are very good that she’s wearing sexy underwear to attract someone else.

#3: Guilty Feelings

Some girlfriends enjoy cleaning and cooking, while others have a difficult time doing domestic tasks.

If your girlfriend is not the domestic type, but you suddenly find her cleaning your home and doing a lot of cooking, there may be a reason behind it.

A woman who is suddenly doing things she never does may be doing so because she feels very guilty, and those guilty feelings could be because she’s cheated on you.

Keep an eye on the things she does that are no normal for her and you’ll be able to tell if she’s feeling guilty about something.

#4: The Digital World

My friend's associate - Chris, was married to his wife for over ten years. They had three children together and he thought everything was fine.

Then, one day, he came over to our home to see if his wife had a My Space account.

It turns out that she did. Her My Space account had tons of comments on it from friends asking her to go out to the bar again. There were also comments from men that Chris didn’t know, which made him concerned.

A few weeks later he came over to check it again and saw that she had not only removed his name from her profile, she had changed her status to single. It turns out she was meeting a man at the bars when she was going out and it was the beginning of the end of their relationship.

The digital world is a quick and sure way to tell if your girlfriend is cheating. If she starts hiding e-mail accounts from you, or suddenly changes the passwords on everything, there is a good chance she is doing it because she is cheating on you.

Women are often easier to catch cheating than men, because they feel things so deeply. If you pay close attention, you will be able to discover easily whether your girlfriend is cheating on you or not.

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Understanding Women: What to Expect if You Are Dating and Courting A Single Mum

In today's society, it is not uncommon for you to date a single mom at some time in your life. This can be a problem for some men. They may not want to date someone that has children.

However, this cannot be controlled if they feel a special bond to them. The one thing to remember is that you are dating the person and the role of the person. A woman will want to be noticed and appreciated for every one of her qualities and not judged by a role that she is in.

Sometimes having children was not a situation that she wanted to be in but just one that happened and now it is her responsibility.

1) Exploring the Relationship

If you really like a woman and you want to go on and explore the relationship further, you will have to concentrate on the one on one part first. There will be a time and place to meet her child or children later on in the relationship.

It is first going to about getting to know her better and learn how to start trust each other. You need to move past the fact that she is a mom and worry about that a little bit later on. First, see where the relationship is going and what you are both feeling.

2) Accept the children's needs

You will eventually have to realize and accept that the children's needs are a going to be a priority at times. She does not really want to cancel an important date with you but if her child is sick or she cannot get a babysitter this is something that you have to deal with.

As a man, you will have to come to the realization that her children come first and they are the most important part of her life. You need to be prepared for any last minute changes or cancellations that can happen because she has other obligations at home.

Do not take it out on her when she does have to cancel for these reasons. It is not her fault or the fault of the child. It happens and it is best to be flexible and understanding when these things come up.

You need to make sure that you do not give her the guilt trip when she has to cancel plans or if something would come up. You need to make sure that give her a change to explain and make other arrangements for a next time.

3) Meet the children on her terms

When it does come time to meet her children, you have to do it on her terms and her schedule. Make sure that you are putting yourself in the shoes of the children for a minute. They have probably had a hard time with the separation of their parents.

This is usually a hard time to see his or her mom go out with someone else. You need to be patient and understanding. Try to be their friend but do not push them or expect too much at all. You have to be able to accept them for who they are and how they feel.

Give it time and you will see that things should work themselves out and everyone will get along eventually.

4) Never expect too much

You should not expect to be welcomed in by her children or other family members right away. You need to be patient and have understanding about what is going on. This is going to be a difficult transaction and one that needs to be dealt with care and devotion.

Having a good method of understanding with everyone is going to be the best way to get through this time. You cannot push anyone to like you and never act cocky or arrogant in any way.

Having common sense. Think about how you would feel if you were put in the same situation. You want to make sure that you are giving everyone space and time. Never push a woman into making her kids do something or giving her a guilt trip when she cannot go out with you. You do not want to make this a hard situation.

In fact, you can make sure that you are giving her support when it comes to this situation. She will appreciate you more because you are being so supportive and understanding with her and her children.

~ Cucan Pemo
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Cheating Wife: What To Do If Your Wife is Cheating

Some believe that it is men who cheat more than woman.

Most polls and studies, however, show that either the two cheat the same amount, or that women cheat more than men. It’s not surprising, really. Women are very emotional creatures, and if their emotions are not catered to, they will go somewhere else.

This does not mean that it is your fault if your wife is cheating on you. The fact is, cheating should never happen. If a relationship is deteriorating that badly, the wife should be able to go to you, or vice versa, so you can discuss the situation.

Sometimes it’s too late to fix the situation because your wife has already cheated. If this is the case, here are some rules you may want to follow when you’re trying to handle a cheating wife.

Rule #1: Don’t Always Believe What She Says

If you have proof of cheating, confront her with it. Explain to her that you know that she has cheated on you and tell her how it makes you feel. Depending on the type of woman she is, she may jump into the discussion with a lot of excuses.

Here are some classic ones:
“What was I supposed to do? You weren’t emotionally there for me.”
“I was just so lonely. You’re never home.”
“It was a one time thing. A total fluke. It will never happen again.”
“I cheated on you because I know that you cheated on me. I was getting even.”

Women tend to jump to the defense very quickly, which means that sometimes they don’t know what’s coming out of their mouth. She may say one thing during the discussion only to forget that she’d even said it. Do not automatically believe what she is saying.

Rule #2: Don’t Play ‘Pin The Blame’

It’s classic for a woman to turn the fact that she cheated back on her husband. She will claim that she only did so because he wasn’t there when she needed him, or because she felt that he didn’t love her anymore.

Never let her place the blame on your shoulders. If you have stayed faithful to your wife, the blame lies entirely on her shoulders and no one else’s. She is the one that made the decision to sleep with another man, and you should not feel guilty about it.

Rule #3: Watch Out For Friends

Some women will enlist the help of their friends. They will convince their friends to call you to say that your wife was not cheating, or that she only did so once.

Some will even say that it was them that was involved with the other person, and that your wife was only trying to help the relationship along. Unless the friends have proof, ignore them. They are just being faithful to your wife, which is a good thing.

After all, you should want your wife’s closest friends to be faithful, even if their faith is a bit misplaced. But what goes on in your relationship is between you and your wife and no one else.

Rule #4: Therapy

If this is indeed the first time that your wife has cheated, and you want to salvage the relationship, you may want to suggest couple’s therapy.

Couple’s therapy will give you the chance to talk to one another with a therapist present so that you can get down to the core of the problem and to what caused her to stray in the first place.

You will both be able to discover if you can forgive or not, and if the relationship will have a chance or if you should cut your losses.

If you suggest therapy and your wife will not agree to it, cut your losses and run. Any wife that wants to get her marriage to work will agree to at least trying therapy.

A wife who vehemently rejects going into therapy with you will probably not want to work to keep your relationship alive, so instead of going through months of pain and suffering, cut your losses as quickly as you can.

Wives may cheat for different reasons than most men cheat, but the fact is that they still cheated. Make sure you talk to your friends and get your own head clear, or you’ll never be able to deal with her in a positive manner.

And remember: if the relationship is meant to survive, it will. Get all the help you need using the resources such as RetrieveALover.com. Do your own research. Nothing is impossible in this world and there is always hope.

~ Cucan Pemo
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What Women Want: Most women look for men who PUT THEM FIRST!!!

An interesting feedback from a woman who is single:

What do you want and need in your relationship?
More demonstrations of 'higher value' --i.e. showing me that he appreciates me in many ways. He would be more willing to show me small amounts of affection in public. More interest in my acitivities and who I am.

What do you want and need in romance and dating?
Honestly? I want my ex-lover back! :-) But, in general, I need a man to be athletic, funny, intelligent, and caring. Men who are selfish are definately a TURN OFF.

What do you want and need in sex?
I want a man to complement parts of my body/face more. I work out hard and often to keep my figure, so I'd like more compliments about my body. I need more foreplay and a sincere interest from my partner to learn more and explore my body.

What do you look for in a mate?
Intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, self-confidence (but not cockiness!), spiritually centered/religious in some form, athleticism, thoughtfullness

What turns you on?
Tall, strong, funny men. A man who will hold my hand in public or place his hand on my lower back. A man who is endearing and has many sides to his personality. A man who takes care of himself and is careful with his appearance. A man who is interested in others. A man who is spontaneous and fun-loving. A man who puts me first.

What turns you off?
Bad hygeine, slovenlyness, selfishness, self-centered thinking, boring lovers, complacency and 'comfortable' behavior in a relationship

What do you secretly wish your partner would know if you have then chance to convey that message to him?
That I want him to want me more (sexually) and that I want to be with him always.

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