Sunday, November 08, 2009

Does my girlfriend respect me?


How can you find out?

When you are in a relationship you must be treated with respect, which means your girlfriend must somehow act like this:

- lets you feel comfortable being yourself

- is able to admit when she is wrong

- is willing to compromise

- respects your opinions, feelings and friends

- tries to resolve conflicts by talking honesty

- accepts when you’re saying no at things you don't want to do

So, take a deep look at your relationship and watch out if your girlfriend is making all this things for you and if not you should try these tips...

1. First of all it is very important to have self respect.

Treat yourself with respect. If she sees that you don't have any respect for yourself she might consider that she doesn't have to show you either, because it is not important to you at all.

2. What you give is what you take.

Show respect if you want to be respectable. Everyone wants to be admired and appreciated. If you show your girlfriend that she is important to you, you'll be easily in their good graces. Be attentive, give compliments, and make her feel comfortable with you and content. Simply admire the person you are with and listen carefully when she talks. So, she'll love to spend time with you.

3. Relax.

Women think men are mediocre because they have a boring personality.

So, when you have a date with her relax and have fun so she will feel great with you, because if she finds you boring you may get dumped. If you make her feel good she will respect you for the funny guy you are, being the person who can make her smile even when she is very sad.

4. Don't lie.

We all now that women don't like to be lied to. If she had caught you with a lie she will definitely not have any more respect for you. But, if she sees that you are sincere to her all the time, she will be proud of you and will show more and more respect for you.

5. Be confident and polite.

Look into her eyes when she talks to you and make her feel that you are a person who can trust in. Show her that she can talk with you about any subject or problem she has and can count on your help.

Don't forget to be polite, this will bring a reciprocal respect.

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How to make your girlfriend respect you?

An interesting entry sent in from a woman reader who is still single. She makes a good point when pointing out what she needs in the relationship, and I believe that both men and women need THIS in their relationship - repsect.
Respect is one of the basic human values. As it applies to people, is defined as an attitude of admiration or esteem for a person.
This feeling is generally a result of a person's achievements. While all people deserve respect, not many of they receive this.
Everyone wants to be respected by others but not all of them get it. It’s important to first define who a respectable person is before giving respect to him.
First of all you have to keep in mind that in order to demand respect, you will have to treat others with equal amount of respect.
‘Respect’ is just a word, but what it means and what it distinguishes for us can make all the difference in how we observe ourselves and others — as well as how we relate to future possibilities and choices.
Many successful relationships have been built around different political or religious believes, but it all boils down to respect. They are based on the belief that both partners are equal, that the power and control in the relationship are equally share. In a relationship, respect means to listening each other, valuing each other's opinions, and also understanding the other's emotions.
What you give is what you take. Show respect if you want to be respectable. Everyone wants to be admired and appreciated. If you show your girlfriend that she is important to you, you'll be easily in their good graces. Be attentive, give compliments, and make her feel comfortable with you and content.
Simply admire the person you are with and listen carefully when she talks. So, she'll love to spend time with you.

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

Positive adventure of discovering each other's potential, strong and weak points and having fun while doing that. Happiness, tons of it, respect for each other

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your partner?

With every date each of us come up with silly and funny ideas that will make us laugh. (You know the flowers and chocolates ideas is just so overrated) - dressing up as clowns - that's fun. To me something out of the ordinary would be romantic

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

Assurance and connection on a higher level, though it can just be playing or fooling around

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

Comfortable connection, someone I can share some ideas with, argue about politics - someone with a sound intellect. Someone I can have a healthy debate with without taking things personally

5) What turns you on?

Silly jokes or anything my partner does just to make me laugh

6) What turns you off?

Sulking is a major turnoff

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your partner?

I love him without making him run for his dear life

8) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

Being honest about how I feel and get a positive response without the world coming to an end

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