It's human nature, people want to "feel" and know that you are thinking of them!

This is a very interesting entry sent in from a woman reader who is divorced. Very invaluable input from a woman herself and you can really get a lot out of understanding what women really want from her relationships!

If you are a guy reading this, remember this, if you make your girl make all the decisions all the time, it is really a BIG turn off!!!

Here's a big tip for you, guys. If you want to please your girlfriend, remember this, most girls just need to "feel" taken care of!

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

Someone who tells me with words and actions that they love me often, a man that pays attention to what I have to say and responds not with a "fix" but with understanding or just a willingness to listen, I need to feel taken care of, I need a man that is confident in himself, I need and want to make love often and to be touched and talked to lovingly throughout the day, I want to be able to take care of him and want him and I to share our thoughts and desires, I want to have a completely open relationship where we both can say or do anything and know that the other will not run away but will stay to work out the difficult things and celebrate the wonderful things that happen

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your partner?

flowers are nice and surprises of any kind are fun, I also love when a man texts or emails or calls "just because" to say I am thinking of you, I want a man that is confident and will do some of the planning for our dates and times together...there is nothing worse than a man that always says "whatever you want dear", I want a man that is comfortable with himself and will share himself with me.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

Lots of foreplay both verbal and touching, I need to be held and touched often, I like to mix things up and not get into a routine or rut, I love to try new things, I need a man who is confident in bed and will take charge without being too rough or bossy, I also need a man who will let me relax and take my time coming to orgasm...the journey is just as wonderful as the orgasm itself, I also want and need a man who will be in tune to my body and not follow a set of rules for all women

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

Confidence, a big heart, honesty, openness, willingness to communicate both verbally and non verbally

5) What turns you on?

Running his fingers through my hair, touching me in unusual places like the back of my neck or back of my knees or the small of my back, I am turned on when he whispers in my ear or touches me in public,

6) What turns you off?

Roughness, crude sex talk, a man who is unsure or wants me to make all the decisions

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your partner?

I love back rubs and sensual massage and I wish we could have a massage together and then learn how to give sensual massages to each other

8) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

The biggest challenge is the differences in the way men and women communicate, finding a way to talk without stressing him out, I also find it challenging to find time alone with him or to take time out of our busy lives to just be together (even if we plan dates, the stress of the day seems to sneak in).

The top problem is both of our fears....mine of being rejected and his of jealousy (and ultimate rejection).....I need to learn how to trust him and not worry so much about the future, but enjoy the moment; he is very jealous and is always afraid that someone "better" will come along and I will not want him any more. How do we overcome our fears so we can enjoy each other more fully?

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Are you getting into a relationship just for the sake of not being alone??

Some people get into a relationship for the sake of not being alone. This can be a mistake. Getting into a relationship with someone just for the sake of not being alone is not very smart.

Here are some ways on how to deal with this fear of loneliness.

Getting into a relationship with someone for the sake of not being by yourself can cause problems down the road. What happens if you pick the wrong person? Let’s say you choose someone and you get married. After five or six months, you start to realize that you made a mistake in selecting this person. What do you do now?

Its not fun being alone but being with someone that you can barely tolerate is not the answer. Once you get married and have kids, it can be very difficult to get out of the relationship if things turn south. Make the smart decisions now and don’t let loneliness become a issue in your relationships.

Spending some time with animals can get rid of loneliness. Get a pet or volunteer at your local animal shelter. Walking or petting the animals can be very effective in managing loneliness. Animals are a great source for companionship.

Get a hobby. Find something you like to do and get involved. If you like to play volleyball, then find a local team. If you like to lift weights, then go to a gym. Doing something you like will keep you active and help you to make friends.

Develop a network of friends. A person who has friends will not be as alone as for someone who is constantly by themselves. Again, join a group where you can develop long lasting friendships.

Finally, if being alone bothers you that much then its best to see a professional. He or she can give you insights on how to better manage your fear of being alone.

There is nothing wrong with being alone. In fact the average person spends some time alone during their lifetime! :)