It's human nature, people want to "feel" and know that you are thinking of them!

This is a very interesting entry sent in from a woman reader who is divorced. Very invaluable input from a woman herself and you can really get a lot out of understanding what women really want from her relationships!

If you are a guy reading this, remember this, if you make your girl make all the decisions all the time, it is really a BIG turn off!!!

Here's a big tip for you, guys. If you want to please your girlfriend, remember this, most girls just need to "feel" taken care of!

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

Someone who tells me with words and actions that they love me often, a man that pays attention to what I have to say and responds not with a "fix" but with understanding or just a willingness to listen, I need to feel taken care of, I need a man that is confident in himself, I need and want to make love often and to be touched and talked to lovingly throughout the day, I want to be able to take care of him and want him and I to share our thoughts and desires, I want to have a completely open relationship where we both can say or do anything and know that the other will not run away but will stay to work out the difficult things and celebrate the wonderful things that happen

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your partner?

flowers are nice and surprises of any kind are fun, I also love when a man texts or emails or calls "just because" to say I am thinking of you, I want a man that is confident and will do some of the planning for our dates and times together...there is nothing worse than a man that always says "whatever you want dear", I want a man that is comfortable with himself and will share himself with me.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

Lots of foreplay both verbal and touching, I need to be held and touched often, I like to mix things up and not get into a routine or rut, I love to try new things, I need a man who is confident in bed and will take charge without being too rough or bossy, I also need a man who will let me relax and take my time coming to orgasm...the journey is just as wonderful as the orgasm itself, I also want and need a man who will be in tune to my body and not follow a set of rules for all women

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

Confidence, a big heart, honesty, openness, willingness to communicate both verbally and non verbally

5) What turns you on?

Running his fingers through my hair, touching me in unusual places like the back of my neck or back of my knees or the small of my back, I am turned on when he whispers in my ear or touches me in public,

6) What turns you off?

Roughness, crude sex talk, a man who is unsure or wants me to make all the decisions

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your partner?

I love back rubs and sensual massage and I wish we could have a massage together and then learn how to give sensual massages to each other

8) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

The biggest challenge is the differences in the way men and women communicate, finding a way to talk without stressing him out, I also find it challenging to find time alone with him or to take time out of our busy lives to just be together (even if we plan dates, the stress of the day seems to sneak in).

The top problem is both of our fears....mine of being rejected and his of jealousy (and ultimate rejection).....I need to learn how to trust him and not worry so much about the future, but enjoy the moment; he is very jealous and is always afraid that someone "better" will come along and I will not want him any more. How do we overcome our fears so we can enjoy each other more fully?

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Are you getting into a relationship just for the sake of not being alone??

Some people get into a relationship for the sake of not being alone. This can be a mistake. Getting into a relationship with someone just for the sake of not being alone is not very smart.

Here are some ways on how to deal with this fear of loneliness.

Getting into a relationship with someone for the sake of not being by yourself can cause problems down the road. What happens if you pick the wrong person? Let’s say you choose someone and you get married. After five or six months, you start to realize that you made a mistake in selecting this person. What do you do now?

Its not fun being alone but being with someone that you can barely tolerate is not the answer. Once you get married and have kids, it can be very difficult to get out of the relationship if things turn south. Make the smart decisions now and don’t let loneliness become a issue in your relationships.

Spending some time with animals can get rid of loneliness. Get a pet or volunteer at your local animal shelter. Walking or petting the animals can be very effective in managing loneliness. Animals are a great source for companionship.

Get a hobby. Find something you like to do and get involved. If you like to play volleyball, then find a local team. If you like to lift weights, then go to a gym. Doing something you like will keep you active and help you to make friends.

Develop a network of friends. A person who has friends will not be as alone as for someone who is constantly by themselves. Again, join a group where you can develop long lasting friendships.

Finally, if being alone bothers you that much then its best to see a professional. He or she can give you insights on how to better manage your fear of being alone.

There is nothing wrong with being alone. In fact the average person spends some time alone during their lifetime! :)

Dating Advice: is it just enough to show up, pay for dinner or drive her home??

When you are dating, everything you do is subject to inspection. It is not enough to just show up, pay for dinner, and drive her home. You also have to think about what to wear, what to talk about, etc. It can be exhausting. You are NOT just trying to show that you will be a great lover or be a loyal boyfriend!!

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How to tell if she is not interested in me anymore?

To break up a relationship is a harder decision when we talk about a long term one.

In most cases when woman is no longer interested in a relationship she doesn't want to be the one to end it. But even when she is already made the decision to break it up, she will take some time to give you some signs to prepare you, before she tells you.

If you feel that something is going wrong it is time to take a closer look at your relationship.

Here are 7 warning signs she is no longer interested:

1. This is probably the most classic subtle signal of all: her life become too hectic. She hasn't picked up the phone for a few days and when she does, she is busy and pretending that she doesn't have time to met you. This isn't necessarily a sign that it is over, but if you are used to meet her frequently then there is something wrong.

2. Eventually, when she decided to spend some time with you she keeps looking around to find
something to do or someone else to talk to. However, when a woman is interested, she puts in
the effort by giving you her full attention.

3. She's secretive and no longer wants to tell you where she has been or who was on the phone.

4. Don't forget that women love to talk. If she doesn't ask you questions and shows no interest
in what you have to say and when you ask her questions she limits her answers to "yes" and "no" she has a problem. Can it be the relationship with you?

5. Is she causing arguments over stupid little things? If nothing you do or say isn't right
anymore and all that goes wrong is your fault you can start to worry.

6. She refuses the presents you make. Women love to get presents, so if she turns yours down, she can feel guilty because she is thinking to break up with you, especially if you know she was about to buy that thing for herself.

7. She talks about divorce or break up of other people relationship, as a positive thing. Maybe a
friend of her just has braked up with her boyfriend and now she is doing much better.

In the game of romance, few things are black and white. Most of the points above are assumptions based on commonly used techniques. There is room for interpretations and misunderstandings but all this can make you wonder if everything is ok and discuss the problems you might have.

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Can you understand how DEEP my love is?

It touched me just to read this entry sent in by a woman who is already married. Many guys come to me asking me just what do woman want in their relationships... and it cannot be as simple as this...

"Guys who are masculine, honest, who pick up dogs in their bare arms, who are good to kids, who are attentive. When my husband holds me and kissed my neck or just cradles me in him arms, being close to him."

Guys, THIS is exactly what most girls want, straight to the point.

Why is it that when things start to get too comfortable that things start to go wrong?? Many people out there promoted the idea of "taking the road less travelled" which is not often true in certain cases... you don't take the road less travelled when you have a peaceful, fulfilling and simple life! It IS a challenge to be at peace with yourself and with all things around you when things start to get too comfortable for you. I've seen friends and family members mistakenly taken that path and ended up with more sufferings and regretting their decisions.

You take the road less travelled when you have a challenging time, when you encountered problems in life that you don't have a solution to during that moment. During that time, you can tell yourself to try taking the road less travelled, opened up your minds to try out new stuffs, meet new people, try out new ideas etc... BUT, when things are OK for you, the challenge is how can you stop taking the road less travelled?? Hmmm...you need the guts and concentration skills of an enlightened saint!!!

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

I would like for him to be more considerate and loving, understanding and sympathetic.

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your partner?

I like to be spent time with, cuddled listened to. I want my husband to love me.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

Him to cuddle and hold me afterward, us both to enjoy each other, and to fall asleep in each other's arms.

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

Someone who will listen and truly care, who will put my needs first.

5) What turns you on?

Guys who are masculine, honest, who pick up dogs in their bare arms, who are good to kids, who are attentive. When my husband holds me and kissed my neck or just cradles me in him arms, being close to him.

6) What turns you off?

His being emotionally distant and acting like he doesn't care.

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your partner?

That I crave his affection and his love.

8) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

That he can not understand how deep my love is.

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Romantic Ideas: How to be TRULY Romantic

From the time that theyre little girls, women's imaginations are filled with dreams of romance. They have make-believe weddings with their dolls and teddy bears, they get crushes on boys (while boys are still more interested in building forts than stealing kisses), and even as adults they swoon over chick flicks about star-crossed lovers who beat the odds and find everlasting bliss in each others arms...

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