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She is now back together with Me!

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 08:12:00 +0000

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"Dear my Big Teacher Mr. Cucan, She is now together with me, and we have
a good relation because both of us already know each other..."
~ Best regards, Faustino G.

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God bless and more power!"
~ L.A.

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How to get my Ex to love me again?

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 08:08:00 +0000

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Will my partner change and come back to my side?

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 08:04:00 +0000

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A world of differences!

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 07:37:00 +0000

This is an entry from a woman who is single and attached.

Even though I have not met her, I can feel she is a lovely woman who is CLEAR about what she wants in life and in relationships (she describes them perfectly as can be seen below!)

I know how she feels, because it seems that she is facing very similar challenges like myself. I have a partner who is challenged financially in all areas of his life too, and until today is still unable to understand why it is crucial to be a "saver" ... and like her, I too feel sometimes that I have to financially "support" him! It upsets me sometimes too, but for almost 10 years until today, I have been able to manage our world of differences, using what I know from my books of course! :-) And this is why we are still able to maintain our relationship together until today.

Do you feel that your lover or partner is worlds apart from you in other areas? Tell us about it! If you are a woman, use this form here. If you are a man, use this form here.

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

I need my partner to be "loving"/considerate of me, loyal and able to be trusted.

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your partner?

Good company...honesty....fun....laughter.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

Sensitivity, fun, relaxed attitude, being tuned in (with each other).

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

A reliable man with two feet on the ground - someone who cares to find answers when they are not yet found and is prepared to search for them (with me if necessary) - love of what is beautiful in this world.

5) What turns you on?

Turning HIM on....also a certain look from him....where he actually looks at me like he loves me.

6) What turns you off?

When he is into himself and not me.

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your partner?

That I am vulnerable and very, very much a one-man woman.

8) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

That he has not got anywhere near the same amount of money as I have...he has to keep on working for the rest of his life, but I'm retired. He seems to resent that in me and thinks it is one of our greatest challenges too. I feel sometimes that I have to financially "support" him....I really really don't like that...makes me feel that he feels inadequate and that makes me feel worse...TOP problem is the money issue described above - it results in him having to travel interstate a lot, causes arguments. He works so very hard, but can't ever seem to get enough money...he has never been a "saver" and being 59 (4 years older than me) I feel that we are worlds apart financially...

How to make up with your Girlfriend!

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 09:01:00 +0000

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How your Self Image determines your outcomes in Life and in Relationships!

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 08:58:00 +0000

Do you know that your self image matters a lot to the outcomes you are facing in life and in relationships? Tired of having the same outcomes in life no matter how hard you try or do, and tired of failing in your relationships with other people again and again? Your self image matters a lot! Get more from this video tutorial!

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Make your marriage long lasting!

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 08:52:00 +0000

This is an entry from a woman who is already married, and looking to keep her marriage long lasting with the husband she loves.

All of us wanted the same things in life - love, honesty with each other, and companionship

All of us love to hear compliments in life. Nowadays, few people appreciate other people, giving compliments are rare! If you want to please your girlfriend or make your girlfriend happy, make an effort to give compliments whenever she deserves it. Everyone of us humans deserve compliments every now and then! It makes this world a much more better place!

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

I want my husband to be honest with me and I want him to go home early.

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your partner?

I want a simple date not that so luxurious. I just want him to make me feel that he really make an effort to make me happy. i want my husband to always fall in love with me.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

I want him to make love with me often. Because my husband when he gets home he is always tired. But I do understand because of his work.

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

I am looking for a mate that would love me for life. For better and for worse.

5) What turns you on?

someone who always compliments me and make me feel that he really loves me.

6) What turns you off?

someone who neglects me.

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your partner?

How much I really love him. I really love my husband.

8) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

most challenging is that when you encountered problems. sometimes I am jealous and i did not trust my husband.

Does my girlfriend respect me?

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:50:00 +0000

How can you find out?

When you are in a relationship you must be treated with respect, which means your girlfriend must somehow act like this:

- lets you feel comfortable being yourself

- is able to admit when she is wrong

- is willing to compromise

- respects your opinions, feelings and friends

- tries to resolve conflicts by talking honesty

- accepts when you’re saying no at things you don't want to do

So, take a deep look at your relationship and watch out if your girlfriend is making all this things for you and if not you should try these tips...

1. First of all it is very important to have self respect.

Treat yourself with respect. If she sees that you don't have any respect for yourself she might consider that she doesn't have to show you either, because it is not important to you at all.

2. What you give is what you take.

Show respect if you want to be respectable. Everyone wants to be admired and appreciated. If you show your girlfriend that she is important to you, you'll be easily in their good graces. Be attentive, give compliments, and make her feel comfortable with you and content. Simply admire the person you are with and listen carefully when she talks. So, she'll love to spend time with you.

3. Relax.

Women think men are mediocre because they have a boring personality.

So, when you have a date with her relax and have fun so she will feel great with you, because if she finds you boring you may get dumped. If you make her feel good she will respect you for the funny guy you are, being the person who can make her smile even when she is very sad.

4. Don't lie.

We all now that women don't like to be lied to. If she had caught you with a lie she will definitely not have any more respect for you. But, if she sees that you are sincere to her all the time, she will be proud of you and will show more and more respect for you.

5. Be confident and polite.

Look into her eyes when she talks to you and make her feel that you are a person who can trust in. Show her that she can talk with you about any subject or problem she has and can count on your help.

Don't forget to be polite, this will bring a reciprocal respect.

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Don't let your feelings of guilt tear down your relationship!

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:39:00 +0000

When the mind allows guilt to take over, it will tear down relationships, especially if the partner fails to come to terms and agreement with self.

To determine if your mind is full of guilt you must ask your self-questions. What did you do so wrong that would offend your partner that cannot be forgiving?

Guilt can break the mind down to the point of no return.

Guilt is more than a mistake made; rather it is a violation against rights, humanity, belief, tradition, standards, and love. When a person fails in a relationship, they may feel a measure of guilt. Thus, confronting the problem now can remove the guilt and make the relationship work.

When people confront their problems, it often leads to workable agreements. When procrastination, or else lying to cover the wrong continues the mind consumes itself with emotions based on guilt.

Guilt occurs when conscious actions or thoughts interfere with someone else’s rights, or else against the own person’s beliefs. Mistakes leading to guilt depend on the situation, but for the most part wrongs can lead to right if humanity exists.

If a person commits adultery, thus the problem is solvable if the person acted out of emotion, rather than thought and commits to restoring trust. Of course, actions, effort, behaviors and habits must show the mate that the mistake will never occur again.

It depends on the mate but some will forgive, while others may take the insult of the partner letting them know their worth in the relationship to heart and may decide separation or divorce is the way out.

Adultery is stating to the mate that you have no worth. If the mate decides to forgive, thus you must do your part and allow the guilt to turn into effort to restore trust. You will need consideration, loyalty, compassion, honesty, and may even need to tell your every move for a while during the course of restore.

A person with true remorse will work hard, regardless of what they need to do to restore trust.

If a person violates the right of the partner, thus, it depends on the magnitude of violation, but in most instances, it is workable. People act out of emotions and impulses at times, and will often act out of lust occasionally. When the emotions, impulses and desires take control (depending on the length of time control is enforced), the person may do things he or she ordinarily would not do.

Thus, adultery is a justifiable reason to divorce or separate from the spouse, but looking at the entirety of the circumstance can help a person decide. Was the spouse enticed by another individual to commit the act, while the spouse was feeling vulnerable?

Still, vulnerability is no excuse on the spouse’s part, but if enticement is the case, then two people wronged you. Was the other person in the act deceived? Did your mate lead the person to believe that he or she was not in a commitment?

Examining the entirety of the act can help the mate determine the direction the relationship is heading, and help the other partner decide what they need to do to make things right again.

Divorce is an attack on the emotions, since a trigger hits the heart and emotions and creates pain, sorrow, hurt, sadness, et cetera. Divorce is showing a disregard for the marriage arrangement unless true reasons for divorce are evident.

Thus, divorce should only be considered if the mate commits adultery, abuses the partner, or fails to commit in the relationship arrangement, or if death occurs.

If you are in a relationship and your mate committed an insulting act against you, such as adultery. Thus, considering the entirety will help you make a wise decision.

If another person enticed your mate on vulnerable grounds, thus consider your partner by asking what were, you thinking at the time. If your mate responds by saying I wasn’t thinking, thus you can ask, what makes me think it won’t happen again?

If your mate is sincerely sorry, he/she will let you know by words, action, emotions, thoughts, and tone spoken.

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What to buy for your girlfriend?

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:29:00 +0000

Ever wonder what to buy for your girlfriends, or even boyfriends??

Here's an inspiring story about Kelly that my friend just sent me! Something that is worth more than money... it is the GREATEST birthday present.

Get your creative juices flowing, you might come up with some cool ideas after reading this story, and you no longer have to wonder what to buy for your soulmate!

Kelly was a very wealthy Hollywood actress, who was used to a posh lifestyle. She lived in a multimillion dollar home in Beverly Hills. She had all sorts of people she paid to do things for her, such as her personal chef, her aerobics trainer, her gardener, her maid and her masseuse. She spared no expense to take care of her wants and needs.

Kelly was a great actress and had been nominated several times for Golden Globes and Academy Awards. She seemed to have everything she wanted.

In spite of losing her mother at a very young age, she had a very loving father and sister. Her Dad ensured that both of his girls got a great education. He also was very supportive of their career moves. Kelly had always wanted to be an actress. Her sister, Sarah, had always wanted to be a scientist.

Sarah drove from where she worked, at Jet Propulsion Laboratory, to her sister’s home.

It was Kelly’s birthday and she invited dozens of celebrities, ranging from actors to musicians. Each guest took turns giving Kelly her extravagant gifts, such as gold-plated picture frames, modern expensive artwork and items from Hong Kong.

It was time for Sarah, her sister, to give Kelly her birthday present. She handed Kelly a brand new photo album. Kelly said jokingly, “A photo album, Sarah? Do you know how many photo albums I have? I do not have enough pictures to fill all my photo albums.”

Sarah knew her sister’s sarcastic humor and took the comment in stride. She finally said, “Open the album, sister.” “But-“ “OPEN the album, Kelly,” Sarah said with conviction.

Kelly opened the photo album. There were many photos of an attractive woman and a handsome man in their mid-thirties next to two girls. Both girls appeared to be less than ten years old.

Kelly’s mouth slowly started to open rather widely as if she had been transformed on the spot. She began to weep as tears of love ran down her face.

She stared at the first page of pictures for several minutes. She finally said softly, “It’s Mom.” She couldn’t say anything more for another few minutes as she turned the page.

The room was silent.

The next page contained pictures of her mother, father, Sarah and her at the Grand Canyon. “Our last trip together,” Kelly said even more softly. She couldn’t hold back the running tears, which were now like Niagara Falls.

The people in the room started to cry as well. Most of them knew that Kelly lost her mother at a very young age.

“Where did you get these?” Kelly asked Sarah. “These are absolutely priceless.” “Dad found them in the attic. I had the same reaction as you.

I had a photoshop restore many of the pictures and make several copies. I had to make an album for you and me. It’s the least I could do for Mom,” exclaimed Sarah. “Do you remember the hike along the Colorado River?” Kelly asked Sarah. “She was so mad when we jumped in the river.” Both sisters hugged each other. Sarah was now crying as much as Kelly. Both sisters’ tears were tears of embrace and loyalty. They both adored one another.

After about an hour of reminiscing with each other and the guests who surrounded them, Kelly said, “Sarah, this is the greatest birthday present anyone could ever give me. Thank you.”

How to make your girlfriend respect you?

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:06:00 +0000

An interesting entry sent in from a woman reader who is still single. She makes a good point when pointing out what she needs in the relationship, and I believe that both men and women need THIS in their relationship - repsect.

Respect is one of the basic human values. As it applies to people, is defined as an attitude of admiration or esteem for a person.

This feeling is generally a result of a person's achievements. While all people deserve respect, not many of they receive this.

Everyone wants to be respected by others but not all of them get it. It’s important to first define who a respectable person is before giving respect to him.

First of all you have to keep in mind that in order to demand respect, you will have to treat others with equal amount of respect.

‘Respect’ is just a word, but what it means and what it distinguishes for us can make all the difference in how we observe ourselves and others — as well as how we relate to future possibilities and choices.

Many successful relationships have been built around different political or religious believes, but it all boils down to respect. They are based on the belief that both partners are equal, that the power and control in the relationship are equally share. In a relationship, respect means to listening each other, valuing each other's opinions, and also understanding the other's emotions.

What you give is what you take. Show respect if you want to be respectable. Everyone wants to be admired and appreciated. If you show your girlfriend that she is important to you, you'll be easily in their good graces. Be attentive, give compliments, and make her feel comfortable with you and content.

Simply admire the person you are with and listen carefully when she talks. So, she'll love to spend time with you.

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

Positive adventure of discovering each other's potential, strong and weak points and having fun while doing that. Happiness, tons of it, respect for each other

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your partner?

With every date each of us come up with silly and funny ideas that will make us laugh. (You know the flowers and chocolates ideas is just so overrated) - dressing up as clowns - that's fun. To me something out of the ordinary would be romantic

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

Assurance and connection on a higher level, though it can just be playing or fooling around

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

Comfortable connection, someone I can share some ideas with, argue about politics - someone with a sound intellect. Someone I can have a healthy debate with without taking things personally

5) What turns you on?

Silly jokes or anything my partner does just to make me laugh

6) What turns you off?

Sulking is a major turnoff

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your partner?

I love him without making him run for his dear life

8) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

Being honest about how I feel and get a positive response without the world coming to an end

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How to create a magical relationship!

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 06:34:00 +0000

Reviews just sent in from my readers who simply love my Retrieve A Lover Blueprints!
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"hey Cucan i love the things you send me. You couldn't imagine how said I am but when I get your emails I just turn into someone that I always loved to be. Love you so much, best regards to you, take care of yourself..."
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It's human nature, people want to "feel" and know that you are thinking of them!

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 06:16:00 +0000

This is a very interesting entry sent in from a woman reader who is divorced. Very invaluable input from a woman herself and you can really get a lot out of understanding what women really want from her relationships!

If you are a guy reading this, remember this, if you make your girl make all the decisions all the time, it is really a BIG turn off!!!

Here's a big tip for you, guys. If you want to please your girlfriend, remember this, most girls just need to "feel" taken care of!

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

Someone who tells me with words and actions that they love me often, a man that pays attention to what I have to say and responds not with a "fix" but with understanding or just a willingness to listen, I need to feel taken care of, I need a man that is confident in himself, I need and want to make love often and to be touched and talked to lovingly throughout the day, I want to be able to take care of him and want him and I to share our thoughts and desires, I want to have a completely open relationship where we both can say or do anything and know that the other will not run away but will stay to work out the difficult things and celebrate the wonderful things that happen

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your partner?

flowers are nice and surprises of any kind are fun, I also love when a man texts or emails or calls "just because" to say I am thinking of you, I want a man that is confident and will do some of the planning for our dates and times together...there is nothing worse than a man that always says "whatever you want dear", I want a man that is comfortable with himself and will share himself with me.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

Lots of foreplay both verbal and touching, I need to be held and touched often, I like to mix things up and not get into a routine or rut, I love to try new things, I need a man who is confident in bed and will take charge without being too rough or bossy, I also need a man who will let me relax and take my time coming to orgasm...the journey is just as wonderful as the orgasm itself, I also want and need a man who will be in tune to my body and not follow a set of rules for all women

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

Confidence, a big heart, honesty, openness, willingness to communicate both verbally and non verbally

5) What turns you on?

Running his fingers through my hair, touching me in unusual places like the back of my neck or back of my knees or the small of my back, I am turned on when he whispers in my ear or touches me in public,

6) What turns you off?

Roughness, crude sex talk, a man who is unsure or wants me to make all the decisions

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your partner?

I love back rubs and sensual massage and I wish we could have a massage together and then learn how to give sensual massages to each other

8) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

The biggest challenge is the differences in the way men and women communicate, finding a way to talk without stressing him out, I also find it challenging to find time alone with him or to take time out of our busy lives to just be together (even if we plan dates, the stress of the day seems to sneak in).

The top problem is both of our fears....mine of being rejected and his of jealousy (and ultimate rejection).....I need to learn how to trust him and not worry so much about the future, but enjoy the moment; he is very jealous and is always afraid that someone "better" will come along and I will not want him any more. How do we overcome our fears so we can enjoy each other more fully?

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Are you getting into a relationship just for the sake of not being alone??

Some people get into a relationship for the sake of not being alone. This can be a mistake. Getting into a relationship with someone just for the sake of not being alone is not very smart.

Here are some ways on how to deal with this fear of loneliness.

Getting into a relationship with someone for the sake of not being by yourself can cause problems down the road. What happens if you pick the wrong person? Let’s say you choose someone and you get married. After five or six months, you start to realize that you made a mistake in selecting this person. What do you do now?

Its not fun being alone but being with someone that you can barely tolerate is not the answer. Once you get married and have kids, it can be very difficult to get out of the relationship if things turn south. Make the smart decisions now and don’t let loneliness become a issue in your relationships.

Spending some time with animals can get rid of loneliness. Get a pet or volunteer at your local animal shelter. Walking or petting the animals can be very effective in managing loneliness. Animals are a great source for companionship.

Get a hobby. Find something you like to do and get involved. If you like to play volleyball, then find a local team. If you like to lift weights, then go to a gym. Doing something you like will keep you active and help you to make friends.

Develop a network of friends. A person who has friends will not be as alone as for someone who is constantly by themselves. Again, join a group where you can develop long lasting friendships.

Finally, if being alone bothers you that much then its best to see a professional. He or she can give you insights on how to better manage your fear of being alone.

There is nothing wrong with being alone. In fact the average person spends some time alone during their lifetime! :)

Your Book is good!

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 08:26:00 +0000

"Your book is marvelous..continue with your good work..."
~ Sa

"Cucan I would like to say thank you for your helpful advice..."
~ H

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Make your relationship less stressful and more enjoyable

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 02:58:00 +0000

One of the best methods we have for making every relationship less stressful and more enjoyable is to show a little patience.

Learn about the case study of an entire family caught in the throes of grief and misery. Are you addicted to relationship dramas??

Learn how you can make your relationship and marriage less stressful starting from today.

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Is your spouse, girlfriend or lover sending out an SOS?

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 02:54:00 +0000

Divorce can be devastating for an entire family, but there is hope. If you know how to read and spot these signs of unhappiness in your own relationship (or marriage) the relationship could have been saved. Is your spouse or lover sending out an SOS? By learning these distress signals, you can take the steps you need to save your marriage.

How to win Arguments with Women every time??

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 08:20:00 +0000

If you are constantly fighting and arguing with your girlfriend or even your wife, then are you aware what is REALLY going on??

Have you ever noticed that arguments are rarely "won?" If you want to win any arguments with your women, get some insights from this tutorial FIRST!

Help! My girlfriend is not talking to me!

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 07:57:00 +0000

Many couple take a time out after a fight, either by mutual agreement or, unfortunately, because one person has distanced themselves from the other, either by physically leaving the room. I have often received mails from my readers asking me how they can get their girlfriends to talk, especially after a big fight. It seems that the girls are not in the mood of making up quick.

Eventually, however, you have to come back together and talk about what is wrong. There are tried-and-true techniques for initiating that first, vital step towards healthy communication after a fight.

How can you get your girlfriend or wife to talk again after a big fight? Pick up some tips from this tutorial!

Reverse your break up: how can i save my own relationship?

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 09:02:00 +0000

Everyone goes through problems in their relationship, but unless you learn to address them and resolve them, your relationship can fall into pieces.

For those who are married or have been with their partner for a long period of time, you will experience moments in your life where things get dull.

It happens to everyone and often times sooner rather than later.

Learn what you must do to save your own relationship starting from today! You can definitely stop your breakups using the simple steps revealed in this tutorial!

What can you do to overcome all negative thinking and thoughts in your own life and relationships

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 03:28:00 +0000

Are you constantly criticizing yourself for every little time you do wrong, whether it' is in your life or in your relationships, for example saying things to yourself, like "I should have said this!", or "Look I cannot even do this simple thing", or "Everyone thinks I'm stupid etc, etc?", or even "I'm a lousy lover..."

If you are often very negative in your relationship, learn how you can deal with your own negative thinking!

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Attract a girl's attention: when my girlfriend is not my first lover

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 11:37:00 +0000

It is a fact of life, you might not be the first boyfriend or guy that your lady friend has been involved with.

In many cases, she may have even considered marriage with an Ex, taken his engagement ring and headed for the altar before realizing that he was not really "The One".

If so, you may be feeling a little insecure, wondering if that man was truly the love of her life and still in contact with her, or you might wonder if if she is really ready to make a commitment to you right now.

What can you expect from your relationship if you are not her first lover?

How much actual work has to go into such a relationship to make it thrive?

Dating Divorced Women: What do divorced women want from their relationships or marriage??

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 03:51:00 +0000

Today, divorce is much more commonplace, and not necessarily the result of some sort of scandalous turmoil. After all, many couples choose to end their marriage simply because they dont love each other any more, or because theyve found themselves bickering so much that they just cant get along. What can you expect from your relationship if you are meeting many attractive women who are divorced. You will soon find that, in many ways, they are different from single women. They have already been married at least once, which means there is not a lot of mystery left where men are concerned.

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Dating Advice: is it just enough to show up, pay for dinner or drive her home??

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 03:43:00 +0000

When you are dating, everything you do is subject to inspection. It is not enough to just show up, pay for dinner, and drive her home. You also have to think about what to wear, what to talk about, etc. It can be exhausting. You are NOT just trying to show that you will be a great lover or be a loyal boyfriend!!

So what EXACTLY are you being judged on during dating?? Get the BIGGEST secret here (look for tip number 5!!!)

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How to tell if your girlfriend or wife is lying to you??

noreply@blogger.com (Poster) — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 05:41:00 +0000

Why are some relationships more honest than others?

Why are some couples more truthful with each other while others like to deceive the partner?

Nobody deserves to be lied, but there are no doubts that women are telling lies considerably and often. But so men do the same.

If you have trust issues in your relationship, in general, a woman may lie to you. Trust is something that you must build from the beginning of the relationship. Even though, a lot of people say ‘‘white lies'' in order to make others feel better.

Some women lie because, as caring creatures they want to spare the feelings of the man they are dating or seeing.

So, here are some common lies told by women that you should know. Someday you might hear them from your partner and it is better to know their real meaning.

1. You're perfect.

I love you just the way you are and I wouldn't change a thing about you. Let's be serious; nobody is perfect. At the beginning of a relationship all of them say this because they didn't know you very well but after some time will definitely find something that needs changed. So, if she tells you something like this, don't be too enthusiastic because she finds you perfect just for a couple of days, and after that she will ask you to change.

2. You're right.

Every time you are arguing with you're girlfriend usually ends up by telling you that you are right? Maybe this makes you feel proud of you, but you have to know that this is a big lie. She said this just to make you shut up, even if she didn't consider that you're right. She knows that after a while you will see that she was right, and may be waiting for apologize.

3. Nothing is wrong.

The most common lie '' I'm fine'' when asked if there is something wrong is the most used by women. You see that she is upset, she is acting strange or doesn't want to talk to you too much and ask her what is the problem she says that everything is fine. They don't want to tell the real truth but they are expecting that men to figure out that something is wrong and those they had a mistake with something.

4. I do love sports honey.

Maybe she agrees to stay and watch with you every week at a football game but this doesn't really mean that she like it. She accepts to do this just to show you that she is different from other girls and you have common interest. You may be thinking that you have found the perfect girl for you, because not many of them would like to stay to watch football, but don't be too happy because after a while she might had enough and get angry every time you sit down to watch a game.

5. I like spending time with your friends.

At the beginning this is ok, but not too much. Even if they are good friends of you, she would like to spend more time alone with you and not with your friends. If she didn't tell you already this, she will ask you to keep visits from your buddies at minimum and then she might keep pretending she loves them.

6. Your family is adorable, so I like spending time with your family.

The truth? Maybe twice a month. Think about it. Do you really think that she likes to spend time with your family where everybody is criticizing her and watch her every move? She agrees to spend time with your family when is necessary but she doesn't do it with much pleasure even if she is pretending in front of you that she likes them.

7. Your bank account doesn't matter.

I hope you didn't believe this. We all know that this is definitely a lie. All women want a guy that is financial stable and independent, a guy that can assure her a future with no financial problems. This doesn't mean that you have to be very rich to have a girlfriend, but you have to have some money.

8. It doesn't bother to me if you look after women or go with your boys at strip-clubs.

This is too good to be truth. Even she says that this is ok, she will definitely be upset that you want to go. They hate to feel second best to a night out with the guys, and accept this in order to make themselves seem less pathetically needy. If you choose to go, she will make you a lot of comments after, so you better think twice before you go.

9. You are very good in bed.

If she choose to speak about this topic without you ask her, you don't have to believe all she says. If she starts to compliment you about your sexual experience it doesn't mean that she really believes that. Often a woman who cares about a man tell him all that she knows he wants to hear just to make him feel good about himself. So think about your girlfriend, your relationship, your sexual experience and see if you really deserve compliments on this topic.

10. Don't worry, it happens to everyone.

If you just make a mistake, or fail in bed, you might hear this lie from your girlfriend. She doesn't want to show you how upset she is on you but in her mind thinks something else. I wouldn't be too sure that your mistake is forgiven and I would worry in not making too many '' accidents'' like these.

With all these presented, now will be more easy for you to know when your girlfriend or wife is lying. As you see, what a woman says is not what she really thinks.

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